Breastfeeding semasa ramadhan

Breastfeeding and fasting

Should I fast while breastfeeding?

If you are breastfeeding, you are not expected to fast during Ramadan. Most Muslim scholars believe that women who are breastfeeding (and women who are ill, or travelling) have permission not to fast. Some even say it is wrong to ignore this act of kindness by fasting when you do not have to.

Your decision will be guided by the age of your baby. It feels very different if your baby is tiny and only breastfed, compared with a healthy one-year-old who is having other foods and only breastfeeding at night.

It helps to discuss your options. Talk to:

mothers in your family and among your friends about their approach to fasting;

a doctor or breastfeeding specialist;

an Islamic scholar or authority.

Will fasting while I am breastfeeding harm my baby?

Your baby will not be harmed, because you will be able to keep up milk production while you are fasting. Cutting your intake of calories should make no difference to the amount of milk you produce.

Your body adapts by changing the way it uses the available calories, and makes up for a lack of food or fluid by becoming better at releasing energy.

In fact, women can eat nothing for 24 hours, and it will still not affect either the quantity or the nutritional value of their breastmilk. You would feel the effects of fasting, and probably need to stop, before it affected how much milk you produced.

Will my baby be affected by changes in my milk?

Your baby is unlikely to be affected. He will be used to your milk changing a little already, depending on what you eat and how much he needs to feed. We know that even if a mother fasts for 24 hours, the fat content of her breastmilk will not change.

If you eat so little that you start to lose weight, the type of fat in your breastmilk may change, but not the amount. Although the breast itself can make some milk fats, other types of fat will come from your own fat stores if there is not enough in your diet.

Will fasting while breastfeeding harm me?

Your body is likely to cope well with fasting. In one study, a small group of women who fasted through Ramadan had their blood tested. Women who were breastfeeding were found to have roughly the same chemical balance in their blood as the women who weren't breastfeeding or pregnant.

However, if you have been breastfeeding for a while, you know how thirsty it makes you. Becoming dehydrated can make you feel unwell. You can tell you are becoming dehydrated if you:

feel very thirsty;

pass urine that's dark-coloured and strong-smelling;

feel faint, weak or tired;

develop a headache or other pains.

If you begin to notice any of these signs, you should break your fast with some water and have a rest. After half an hour, if you are still feeling unwell, call your doctor.

When you break your fast, drink plenty, particularly early in the morning before resuming your fast. BabyCenter expert and breastfeeding counsellor Jennifer Hor recommends that you fill up on nourishing fluids and foods with low glycemic index (GI). The GI is a measure of the effects of carbohydrates on blood sugar levels. Carbohydrates that break down quickly during digestion have high GI; carbohydrates that break down more slowly, releasing glucose more gradually into the bloodstream, have a low GI. Low GI foods include many types of vegetables and beans, chickpeas, noodles and rice.

Don't just fill up on liquids. It is important to get the nutrients, calories and bulk from food. You may find it hard to eat enough overnight, and begin to lose weight. Talk to your doctor if this happens, and consider abandoning your fast.

However, rest assured that as long as you are healthy and happy to lose a little weight, a loss of up to 1kg (2lb) a week during Ramadan should not affect your milk production.

What can I do to prevent any problems?

Preparing for fasting will help you avoid potential problems:

Stock up on shopping, and do chores that require extra energy before you start your fast.

Keep a food diary so you can make sure you are eating and drinking enough overnight.

Stay cool and rest as much as you can during the day.

When should I ask for help?

If you begin to feel unwell, or are becoming dehydrated, talk to your doctor. If you are worried that your baby is not getting enough to eat, get advice from your doctor or paediatrician. Signs that your baby is not getting enough milk include:

fewer wet nappies (a newborn should have several heavy, wet nappies a day);

greenish poo;

lasting, shrill crying or inability to settle;

weight loss or not putting on weight.

If breastfeeding problems develop, talk to a breastfeeding counsellor or lactation consultant. There may be one at your local health centre or hospital, or ask your doctor if he can recommend someone. You can also look for more resources in our A-Z Breastfeeding Directory.

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Mengajar bayi hisap botol

I am returning to work soon and I can't get my baby to take a bottle. What can I do?

Written for BabyCentre UK

Jill Irving answers:

Your baby is used to suckling at your breast, so it's only natural that he should need a little time to adjust to a teat instead. But there are plenty of ways to encourage him to get used to this new way of feeding.

You could begin by asking someone else to give your baby a bottle while you're not there, such as your partner or childminder. Your baby may be happy to do this for other people because he won't be expecting breastmilk from them, or be able to smell it.

If you want to try to give your baby a bottle, it may help to hold him in a different position to your usual breastfeeding one. Try holding him propped up against your front and facing outwards. Once he's used to bottle feeding, you can then hold him close and look into his eyes as you feed him.

When giving your baby a bottle, help him to get used to it by letting him play with the bottle while you hold it. Whatever you do, don't force him to feed if he really doesn't want to. As soon as he starts to fight or show signs of distress, stop, and try again in a few days' time.

It may help to experiment with the temperature of the milk in the bottle. Some babies will drink from a bottle at body temperature, just like breastmilk, but others prefer it cool or at room temperature. Also try a variety of bottle teats, and try softening them with warm, boiled water.

If your baby really won't accept a bottle, then you could try feeding him with a spoon or a soft-spouted beaker. If he's around six months he might manage to drink from a cup. Some babies never bottle feed, moving happily from breastfeeding to using a cup as part of the family meal.

Moving your baby on to a bottle can be an emotional and frustrating time, especially if your baby is reluctant at first. If you need to return to work then you may feel understandably anxious about this. Try to take it slowly and enjoy the time you have with your baby before you go back to work.

Source: http://www.babycenter.com.my/baby/formula/takebottleexpert/

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Isteri Yang Masih Perawan

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim

Ustazah Fatma Az-Zahra menurunkan petua untuk kaum ibu menjaga diri agar sentiasa jadi macam 'abqaro' menurut ayat di dalam Surah al-Waqiah.
('Abqaro' ini bermaksud perawan yang sentiasa menjadi perawan) ;;)
Ayat ini elok untuk diamalkan setiap hari oleh kaum ibu untuk menjaga kesihatan luar dan dalam.


Caranya:
Lepas solat Isya', ambil air segelas, baca Al-Fatihah sekali,
Ayatul Qursi sekali dan Surah Al-Waqiah ayat 35-38 sebanyak 7 kali.
Tiup dalam air dan minum.
Niat dlm hati utk menjaga kecantikan diri & utk kebahagiaan rumahtangga.


Makna surah Al-Waqiah ayat 35-38:
(56.35) Sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakan isteri-isteri mereka dengan ciptaan istimewa,
56.36) Serta Kami jadikan mereka sentiasa dara (yang tidak pernah disentuh),
(56.37) Yang tetap mencintai jodohnya, serta yang sebaya umurnya,
(56.38) (Semuanya itu disediakan) bagi puak kanan.
Khabarkan kepada kaum ibu dan isteri2 semoga ada manafaatnya.

JADIKAN AL-QURAN SEBAGAI PENAWAR HATI, ZIKRULLAH SEBAGAI PENGHIBUR HATI, SOLAT SEBAGAI PELINDUNG DIRI, TAQWA SEBAGAI BAJA DI DALAM HATI, SYUKUR SEBAGAI PENEMAN DIRI

Alhamdulillah.
Hidayah

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Sebelum bersetuju untuk berkahwin

Knowing Me, Knowing You

Someone asked me about what questions he should ask his potential wife. I looked at him puzzled and said, "I really don't know!" The thing is, by the time you are ready to talk to someone about sharing your lives together, you should have got past the "practicing Muslim, praying, fasting, good with the family, and give charity regularly part."

Those basics of Islam should be well-established and understood; after that it is time to move on to know the real person inside. This part is to check that he or she matches you! So how can you know what to ask unless you know yourself; your likes, your dislikes, what you find disgusting, what you find funny, how to define "love," how important is family, work, interests, socializing, learning, and so much more.

There are many young people who know themselves very well, and then there are those who do not. If you do not know yourself well yet and do not feel comfortable with who are you, regardless of your age, chances are you are not yet ready to marry.

 

Qualities to Look for

I asked about which qualities should a youth look for in his or her potential spouse to a number of young people and the same answers kept popping up.

"I have to be able to trust my husband/wife." When I asked for clarification, they did not mean just fidelity, but included the ability to keep a trust, keep a secret, to be loyal and to keep one's word.

Another group of young people said, "Honesty! He or she must be truthful." When I prodded for more information, they added that telling lies is a sign of weak character and that a person who can lie about small things will easily betray or do other things that could threaten the entire relationship. I thought that was a really good point.

Another group mentioned the importance of having good communication skills. One young woman said, "I don't want a problem-maker, I want a problem-solver." I asked her if she thought communication solves problems, and she replied that it is the first and very important step.

A young man commented saying that modern city life has alienated people from one another to a large degree and that people do not really communicate well anymore. He blamed the increasing divorce rate on people's general lack of communication skills. I tend to agree.

 

Meeting the Parents

When you marry someone, you are to some extent also marrying his or her family. Therefore, your relations with the family are vital if you are to be content and happy. Some families are easygoing and do not like to involve themselves in your problems, while others might be interfering and even difficult to get along with.

So when you first meet them, all these variables are likely to be swimming around in your head, and you may not be sure how to act. So I asked some young people how to cope with that and this is what they suggested:

"Just be yourself. If you pretend to be someone you are not, they will see right through you and think you are insincere!"

"I think you should find out what they like and take them some small gifts; this would show that you are kind and generous. Everyone likes kind people so you will be off to a good start."

"You really have to understand their culture, especially if you are marrying outside your own. Do a bit of research and find out what is acceptable and considered respectable in their culture, and make sure you respect those norms. This will make them feel respected and they will think you are trying to fit in. If they are good people, they will try equally as hard to make you feel comfortable."

"Speak clearly and directly; do not be arrogant, but don't be too easy either. Through discussion, show that you have opinions and points of view, but also show that you listen to those of others."

 

Is He or She Compatible?

Even people who come from the same cultural background, speak the same language, and are related may not be compatible! Compatibility is something that you have to sense yourself; it is how you feel when you are with the person.

Do you both share similar interests?

You do not want to have someone who is exactly the same as you because that would be boring, and to be very different from each other would not be positive either.

Compatibility is somewhere in between these two extremes; the couple should be able to share interests or at least be able to tolerate each other's hobbies. For example, if someone loves collecting stamps and can talk for hours about this or that stamp, that is just fine if you are interested in them, too. However, if you are not, there won't be much happiness. Then, there might be a husband who loves fishing and can spend the whole day beside the river or the sea. Now his wife may not like fishing, but she might like to sit with him and read or do something she likes and they both respect each other's differences. He does not expect her to touch the worms and hooks and all that and she does not try to stop him.

You do not have to agree on every single thing; a bit of healthy discussion can be enjoyable and enlightening. However, you have to be able to respect each other's opinions; this brings about harmony. When one person tries to dominate over the other, they will inevitably lose love, respect, and harmony between them.

 

Questions in the First Meeting

Your stomach feels tight, your palms are sweating, you are trying to smile and look confident, but you cannot think of a single thing to talk about! You are afraid you look foolish. The first meeting can be really exciting but also extremely nerve-wracking. So it is best to be well-planned ahead of time. I did a bit of research and found some good ideas. Here they are:

If you want to know if the person is superficial or responsible, you could ask: If you were given USD10,000, how would you spend it? Now, the young woman might say that she would buy a whole new wardrobe of clothes and the guy might say he would spend it all making his car faster and noisier. Such things tell a lot about a person. Another young lady might say she would buy books, pay for her brother to do a course, or something along those lines. Very different answers, aren't they?

Another suggestion is to ask about how he or she believes children should be raised. Maybe the guy will say he should be strict and restrictive and even aggressive. Then you have to ask yourself if that is what you really want.

Also, ask about how important family is. It is common these days for people to be career-minded; although having a career is important, it is certainly not everything.

Ask, listen, and think about what the person says and see if it matches with how you think.

A very important thing is to find out if the person has a sense of humor and even the ability to laugh at himself or herself. People who are overly sensitive can be very difficult to live with and almost impossible to communicate with. Watch and see if he or she gets upset about trivial little things and then watch how he or she takes criticism, even if it is given very kindly and indirectly.

For the ladies, it is also good to know if the man is likely to take a second wife and if that is the case you will have to know whether you are ready for that. Be sure he has the habit of consulting others before making decisions, because this means he will treat you the same way.

And you can also ask what his or her ambition in life is. It seems like an easy question, but it really requires a lot of thought and soul searching. Carefully consider the answer you receive.

As we are all aware, we come into this life alone, and we die alone, and we will be resurrected alone. In such context, where is our life partner?

The person you choose to be your partner in life should be someone who will help you to do the right things and make the right decisions, someone who will remind you of Allah and the fact that you are going to stand in front of Him alone one day; someone who helps you be a better and stronger you.

Do not think you will change the person after you marry him or her. Marry the person as he or she is!

So make sure you take in the whole picture of your life, your marriage, and your future so that after having said "I do," you don't have to say "I wish I hadn't"!

 

 

Source: http://www.islamicgarden.com
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Hutang Suami Pada Isteri

Hutang Suami Kepada Isteri

Written by Zarliza Ramli  
http://www.iluvislam.com/keluarga/perkahwinan/3127-hutang-suami-kepada-isteri.html

Isnin, 18 Julai 2011 09:52

Setelah beberapa tahun saya menjadi pengamal undang-undang dan berkongsi ilmu dalam beberapa 'ceramah', isu yang selalunya timbul apabila membicarakan tentang poligami adalah isu mengenai nafkah.

Dalam sebuah kuliah yang saya hadiri, ada seorang muslimat bertanya, "Puan, boleh tak kita mencuri duit dari poket suami untuk kegunaan keperluan rumahtangga?"

Walaupun saya pasti majoriti anda sudah maklum akan jawapannya, di sini saya sekadar ingin bertanya pihak suami, "Kenapa harus isteri mencuri haknya sendiri yang tidak kamu tunaikan?"

Dari Muawiyah al-Qusyairi, berkata: "Saya datang kepada Rasulullah S.A.W lalu saya bertanya, bagaimana pandanganmu Ya Rasulullah tentang isteri-isteri kami?" Sabdanya: "Berilah mereka makan dari makanan yang kamu makan, berilah mereka pakaian dari pakaian yang kamu pakai, janganlah kamu pukul mereka dan jangan pula kamu buruk-burukkan mereka (H.R Abu Dawud)

Ayat-ayat dan hadith di atas menjelaskan bahawa setiap suami bertanggungjawab memberi makanan, pakaian kepada isterinya sesuai dengan kemampuannya. Suami tidak boleh memberi makanan dan pakaian kepada isterinya lebih buruk daripada apa yang dimakan dan dipakai suaminya.

Begitu juga kadar makan dan pakai yang menjadi hak isteri diberikan mengikut kadar yang mampu diberikan oleh suaminya. Di dalam hal ini isteri tidak boleh meminta sesuatu yang di luar kemampuan suaminya. Akan tetapi sekiranya si suami mampu memberikannya lebih tetapi tidak diberikan maka dalam situasi ini si isteri dibenarkan mengambil harta suaminya seperti sabda Rasulullah S.A.W: 

Dari Aisyah r.a berkata: Sesungguhnya Hindun datang kepada Rasulullah lalu bertanya: "Wahai Rasulullah, Abu Sufyan adalah orang yang kikir dan tidak mahu memberikan kepadaku belanja yang cukup untukku dan anakku, sehingga terpaksa aku ambil dari hartanya tanpa pengetahuannya". Lalu Baginda bersabda: "Ambillah sekadar cukup untuk dirimu dan anakmu dengan wajar". (H.R Bukhari dan Muslim.

 *Menurut Imam an-Nawawi bahawa hak-hak yang wajib terhadap isteri itu tujuh perkara iaitu;

i. Makanan.

ii. Bahan-bahan keperluan dapur seperti rempah-ratus (bawang, beras/ tepung, minyak masak, garam, gula, asam termasuk lauk-pauk dan sebagainya)

iii. Pembantu rumah bagi isteri yang kebiasaannya mempunyai pembantu.

iv. Pakaian.

v. Alat-alat pembersih badan (sabun, syampu, dan lain-lain)

vi. Perkakas-perkakas rumah seperti perkakas bilik air, perkakas bilik  tidur dan sebagainya

vii. Tempat tinggal (rumah).

(an-Nawawi: 450-461)

Nafkah suami terhadap isteri yang tidak terlangsai itu akan tetap dikira sebagai hutang sekiranya isterinya tidak redha.

Mengikut Hukum Syara'  isteri yang taat dan tidak disabitkan nusyuz oleh Mahkamah Syariah berhak mendapat nafkah daripada suaminya.

*Tertakluk kepada Hukum Syarak dan pengesahan mahkamah, seseorang isteri tidaklah berhak mendapat nafkah apabila dia nusyuz atau enggan dengan tidak berpatutan menurut kemahuan atau perintah suaminya iaitu antara lain;

a) Apabila dia menjauhkan dirinya dari suaminya.

b) Apabila dia meninggalkan rumah suaminya bertentangan dengan kemahuan suaminya.

c) Apabila dia enggan berpindah bersama suaminya ke satu rumah atau tempat lain, tanpa apa-apa sebab yang sah mengikut Hukum Syarak.

Kepada para isteri, andai isteri-isteri semua redha tidak diberikan nafkah tersebut oleh si suami, maka terlepaslah hukuman untuk suami-suami anda di akhirat. Tetapi andai isteri tidak redha, persoalan nafkah ini akan tetap dibangkitkan kembali ketika hari penghisaban di akhirat kelak.

Kepada para suami sekiranya nafkah si isteri tersebut sengaja diabaikan, bawalah bertaubat dan langsaikanlah semula hak-hak si isteri mengikut kemampuan anda. Sudah tentu anda tidak mahu disekat daripada menjejakkan kaki ke Syurga semata-mata kerana hutang anda yang tidak terlangsai kepada si isteri. Wallahualam.

Sumber Artikel Iluvislam.com
http://www.iluvislam.com/keluarga/perkahwinan/3127-hutang-suami-kepada-isteri.html

Biodata Kolumnis
Zarliza Ramli mendapat pendidikan di peringkat menengah di Kolej Islam Sultan Alam Shah. Kemudian beliau telah menyambung pengajian di peringkat Sarjana Muda di Universiti al-Azhar, Mesir. Beliau telah bertugas dan berkhidmat sebagai peguam syarie selama tujuh (7) tahun dan sedang menyambung pelajaran di peringkat Sarjana di Univerisiti Malaya
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Cloth diaper menjimatkan!

Assalammualaikum,

Alhamdulillah sudah dua bulan Lutfir mengunakan CD. Saya dan suami dapat menjimatkan duit setiap bulan membeli lampin pakai buang.

Sebelum bersalin saya membeli 10 CD jenama Minky Nice Cloth Diaper (dgn 2 insert) dan selepas mengunakannya, suami nampak keberkesanan dalam menjimatkan duit, tahan lama walaupun pakai waktu malam, Lutfir takda ruam, senang nak cuci, dan menjaga alam sekitar.

Setelah Lutfir berusia tiga bulan, suami melabur untuk 10 CD lagi jenama Coolababy. Lima keping kami pakai dan lagi 5 keping berjaya suami jual pada rakan-rakannya dalam usaha mengajak semua orang berCD untuk menjimatkan duit untuk jangka panjang.

Paling yang membuatkan suami puas hati sebab CD ini dapat bertahan lama dengan kadar serapan yang tinggi pada malam hari. Lutfir ni tak selesa jika punggung rasa basah selepas kencing. Alhamdulillah, Lutfir tido lena tanpa terganggu dengan basah lampin.

Jadi saya ingin mengajak semua orang mengunakan Cloth Diaper. Saya tahu CD ni banyak jenama dan harga berbeza-beza. Semua cakap tak mampu nak berCD. Tapi cuba fikirkan, kalau beli jam tangan mewah, beg berjenama mewah, ubah suai kereta, minyak wangi mewah dan berbagai barangan yang ratusan ringgit.. Tidak pula kita pertikaikan mahal dan tak mampu?

Saya dan suami menjual CD pada harga RM30 sekeping. Kami menjual jenama Coolababy dan mendapat 2 insert dengan setiap CD. Beli 10 keping CD dapat Laundry bag percuma.

Kami menawarkan dan mengajak semua membeli sekeping CD setiap bulan. Beli sikit-sikit tak terasa. Bertukar ke CD secara perlahan-lahan dan berperingkat. Apabila koleksi CD dah mencukupi, bolehla berCD sepenuhnya!

Hubungi kami untuk membeli dan pertanyaan lanjut 0172966114 atau hidayahafiz@gmail.com
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Saya nak beli buku Seni Matematik Islam - ADI PUTRA

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim

Saya menonton tentang adiputra dan bukunya di MHI, TV3 pagi semalam. Terus rasa nak beli buku tu baca dan hadiahkan pada adik ipar Saffuan dan Dada.

Matematik sebenarnya sebahagian kehidupan, cuma kita sedar atau tidak. Semua kerjaya memerlukan matematik. Saya yang mengambil sains komputer ini, matematik satu kemestian.

Di mana nak beli? Boleh beli di MHP Bookstore secara online atau pergi ke kedai buku MPH berdekatan anda (check lokasi di sini). Harga tak mahal hanya RM40.00 sahaja.

Product ID	:	9789671039106
Format	:	Paperback
Publisher	:	ADI Genius Matematika
Publish Date	:	01-JUN-2011
Main Category	:	MALAY GENERAL BOOKS
Sub Category	:	M-EDUCATION/TEACHING
Price	:	RM 40.00*

Jadikan 1 buku setiap  1 bulan, MARI!


Alhamdulillah.
Hidayah

Jemputan Kenduri Aqiqah Lutfir

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim

Alhamdulillah.
Hidayah

WHY???

Can anyone tell me why it is so hard to pray, but easy to swear? Why clubs are growing and mosque's are shrinking? Why is it so hard to re-post a Muslim status, but easy to post gossip? Why we can worship a celebrity, but not Allah? Gonna ignore this? Allah said, if you deny Me in front of your friends, I will deny you in front of me. Re-Post this if you're not afraid of what your friends will think.

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3 bulan..Lutfir dah pandai apa?

Assalammualaikum

Alhamdulillah lutfir dah 3 bulan 7 hari..semakin hari ada je benda baru dia pandai..

Hingga kini Lutfir:-

-Lutfir kalau masa menyusu dengan ummi mesti tangan letak kat buahdada ummi, pegang jari ummi atau gemgam baru ummi.

-Lutfir suka dan gelak terkekeh-kekeh kalau orang main sorok-sorok dengan dia. Tutup muka dengan sapu tangan kemudian turunkan sapu tangan dan sergah dia.. Suka betul dia!

-Lutfir fokus masa di mainkan flashcard pada dia. Suka benar dia. Berkayuh-kayuh kaki kesukaan.

-Lutfir suka mandi sejak dia baru lahir. Kini, kalau mandi dan tak lencun baju ummi tak sah. Kaki dia berkocak-kocak dalam air. Kalau ummi mandikan dia letak besin atas meja, habis sekeliling meja basah. Hahahaha.

-Lutfir tak suka ditiarapkan. Boleh bertahan kurang dari seminit dan kemudian dan merengek.

-Lutfir dah mula berusaha pusingkan badan untuk meniarap..berusaha betul dia!

-Lutfir suka tengok tv. Jika dipasangkan boboiboy dan upin ipin..senyap dan kusyuk!

-Lutfir suka dibacakan buku cerita dengan intonasi yang berubah-rubah dan buku cerita bergambar dengan warna yang terang dan menarik.

-Lutfir dah pandai meragam. Akan meragam bila lambat cuci berak, bila lambat susukan dia, bila ditinggalkan seorang diri dan bila kita tak faham yang dia nak tido. Hehehe

-Lutfir akan hisap jari jemarinya bila dia lapar. Dia kalau boleh nak masuk semua jari dalam mulut. Kalau x potong kuku lagi, bercalar dekat-dekat sekeliling mulut dia. Kalau hisap tu dengan penuh perasaan dan kadang kala berbunyi. Jadi hisap jari petanda pertama sebelum dia meragam lapar.

-Lutfir suka kita loncat-loncatkan dia..senyum-senyum dia. Selalu dukung dan loncat-loncatkan dia atas bantal yang gebu. Macam meloncat atas tilam spring tu. Hehehe

-Lutfir bising kalau badan tak bersih. Jadi setiap hari paling lewat lutfir mandi pukul 930am.

-Lutfir dah pandai lonjak-lonjakkan badan. Kalau dia melonjak..habis badan terlurut ke bawah atas terkebelakang. Jadi kalau dia tidur di katil kena letak bantal dekat hujung katil.

-Lutfir dah pandai 'bercakap' dengan mengeluarkan bunyi berbagai-bagai bentuk bunyi.

-Lutfir suka bila ummi buat bunyi-bunyian yang dia suka. Ketawa kekehla dia.

-Lutfir suka bermain-main lidah. Dia keluar-masuk lidah dan kekadang dia tekan lidah dekat bibir. Pandai hisap bibir sendiri dan kekadang berbunyi-bunyi.

-Lutfir suka main dengan tangannya. Munkin dia dah sedar dia ada dua tangan. Dia selalu tautkan dua tangannya. Pastu pilih-pilih tangan mana satu nak hisap. Hehehe. Tangan dia dah pandai gengam sesuatu seperti mainan, baju sendiri, gengam rambut sendiri, tuala dan pegang pampers sendiri. Kekadang dia cuba untuk pegang kaki dia sendiri.

-Lutfir suka tengok benda yang berpusing. Jadi kipas berwarna dan berlampu menjadi kesukaannya.

-Lutfir dia akan terkejut dengan bunyi kuat macam barang jatuh, anjing menyalak dan apa saja bunyi yang kuat.

-Lutfir jika sesetengah orang bercakap dengan dia kadang kala dia buat dunno je. Buat muka takda perasaan. Masa jumpa nurse untuk cucuk 3 bulan dan check perkembangan, nurse tanya kenapa bila saya bercakap dengan anak awak dia tak bagi response. Ummi ni rasa nurse tu tak pandai tarik perhatian dia. Sebab dengan orang lain dia nak bagi respon, senyum dan ketawa. Maybe dia pilih orang kot.

-Lutfir tak mahu minum susu ummi perah guna botol. Masa baru lahir hingga dua bulan ummi bagi botol nak. Kemudian selepas 3 minggu lebih ummi menyusukan terus dari susu badan tak guna botol, lutfir dah tak nak botol. Lutfir akan buat memek muka nak muntah bila suakan botol. Lutfir tahu perbezaan puting ummi dan botol susu. Ummi risau juga kalau lutfir tak mahu botol langsung kerana susahla bila ummi bekerja atau tiggalkan lutfir dengan pengasuh atau opah.

-Lutfir senang diberi makan ubat. Jika lutfir demam dan ummi bagi makan ubat lutfir tak menangis pun. Lutfir hanya akan tunjuk memek muka jika ubat tu pahit dan tak sedap.

-Lutfir kalau meragam selalu mengeliatkan badan, melonjakkan badan, meneran dan mengeraskan badan. Jika dia meragam, kena pujuk cakap lembut sambil usap belakang beberapa kali barula dia ok. Selain tu, bacakan zikir sambil dodoikan dia. Tenangla dia.

Alhamdulillah, itula gelagat permata hati ummi, Muhammad Lutfir Rahman! :) Muaaaah!

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Aries (Lutfirs personality according to his sun sign)

Assalammualaikum

Ini petikan dari website babycenter.com tentang personaliti bayi. Lutfir lahir pada 31 Mar 2011 pada 7.31pm.



ARIES (Mar 21--Apr 20)

This child approaches life with high energy and speed, being impulsive and rather a daredevil.

Activity is all -- he is 'headfirst' into everything, sometimes quite literally. He will be the archetypal bumps-and-bruises toddler.

Passionate and committed, he'll assume the role of initiator and leader, and expect playmates to fall in with his right to lead.


• Personality key: Passionate, forceful, independent, aggressive, energetic, courageous, brave, egotistical -- he has bravado, willpower and strength.

• Parent power: Parents can smoothe the way by teaching Baby Aries the idea of compromise.



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Hebatnya goal Aidil Zafuan

Tahniah dengan prestasi permainan pemain-pemain Malaysia. Saya berharap sangat prestasi ini konsisten dan melayakkan Malaysia.

Saya terlambat post blog ini? Tak mengapala, tetapi memang saya kagum dengan goal oleh beliau.

Saya ni bukanla fanatik bola. Tapi minatla juga jika pasukan Malaysia bermain dengan baik..hehehe

Lupakan dan letak jauh tepi isu rumahtangga beliau dengan rita rudaini. Kita fokus pada tendangan padu beliau! Tendangan yang memang hebat!

Goal Aidil Zafuan mendapat undian tertinggi di website http://www.101greatgoals.com/category/top-goals/


After stressing that our list is compiled in chronological order (and not order of preference), all that's left to say is sit back and enjoy!

1. Rodolph Austin (assist Diego Guastavino) (Sarpsborg v Brann, June 27, 2011)

2. Monica Ocampo (Mexico v England, June 29, 2011)

3. Lee Trundle (Aalesund v Neath, June 30, 2011)

4. Andriy Yarmolenko (Dynamo Kiev v Astra Ploiesti, July 1, 2011)

5. ‪Heather O'Reilly (United States v Colombia, July 2, 2011)

6. ‪Darlington Nagbe (Sporting Kansas City v Portland Timbers, July 2, 2011)

7. Andy Najar (DC United v Philadelphia Union, July 2, 2011)

8. Mohd Aidil Zafuan (Taiwan v Malaysia, July 3, 2011)

9. Marta (Brazil v Norway, July 3, 2011) (pictured)

10. Jonas Svensson (Rosenborg vs Sarpsborg, July 3, 2011)

***


Mari kita lihat video goal hebat Aidil Zafuan di http://www.101greatgoals.com/videodisplay/golazo-aidil-zafuan-(malaysia)-taiwan-12191123/


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Mak menjalani angiogram hari ini

Pukul 8.00pagi hari ini di Universiti Malaya Specialist Centre (UMSC), PJ mak akan menjalani Angiogram untuk jantung. Wad mak di katil 0911, tingkat 9, UMSC, PJ. UMSC terletak disebelah Universiti Malaya (gate menghala ke PJ, bukan gate sebelah masjid). Sehala nak ke Pusat Perubatan Universiti Malaya. Doakan yang baik-baik untuk mak saya ya. Terima kasih.

Jadi, apakah itu "Angiogram"? Mengapa?

Jadi ini saya salin dari website http://www.webmd.com/heart-disease/angiogram

An angiogram is an X-ray test that uses a special dye and camera (fluoroscopy) to take pictures of the blood flow in an artery (such as the aorta) or a vein (such as the vena cava). An angiogram can be used to look at the arteries or veins in the head, arms, legs, chest, back, or belly.

Common angiograms can look at the arteries near the heart (coronary angiogram), lungs (pulmonary angiogram), brain (cerebral angiogram), head and neck (carotid angiogram), legs or arms (peripheral), and the aorta (aortogram).

Why It Is Done

An angiogram is done to:

Detect problems with blood vessels that affect blood flow. Examples of such problems include a tear in a blood vessel (which can cause blockage or internal bleeding), aneurysms (which are weaknesses in the blood vessel wall), and narrowed areas.

Look for changes in the blood vessels of injured or damaged organs.

Show the pattern of blood flow to a tumor. This can not only help show how much the tumor has spread but also guide treatment. See an angiogram image of a bleeding tumor in the kidney .

Show the condition, number, and location of renal arteries before a kidney transplant. See an angiogram image of a kidney .

Look for a source of bleeding, such as an ulcer.

Prepare for surgery on diseased blood vessels of the legs (peripheral arterial disease) in people who have severe leg pain when walking.

Check how bad atherosclerosis is in the coronary arteries.

In some cases, a method called interventional radiology may be used during an angiogram to treat diseases. For example, a catheter can be used to open a blocked blood vessel, deliver medicine to a tumor, or stop intestinal bleeding caused by diverticular hemorrhage. To stop intestinal bleeding, the catheter is moved into the small artery where the bleeding is occurring, and medicine that narrows the artery or causes the blood to clot is injected through the catheter.

During an angiogram, a thin tube called a catheter is placed into a blood vessel in the groin (femoral artery or vein) or just above the elbow (brachial artery or vein).

See a picture of catheter placement in the femoral vein . The catheter is guided to the area to be studied. Then an iodine dye (contrast material) is injected into the vessel to make the area show clearly on the X-ray pictures. This method is known as conventional or catheter angiogram. The angiogram pictures can be made into regular X-ray films or stored as digital pictures in a computer.

An angiogram can find a bulge in a blood vessel (aneurysm). It can also show narrowing or a blockage in a blood vessel that affects blood flow. An angiogram can show if coronary artery disease is present and how bad it is.

A magnetic resonance angiogram (MRA) or computed tomography angiogram (CTA) may be an option instead of an angiogram. Each of these tests is less invasive than a standard angiogram. Some MRA tests and all CTA tests require an injection of dye. A CTA also involves radiation exposure.

Bacaan lanjut di http://www.webmd.com/heart-disease/angiogram

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Mak di wad

Assalammualaikum

Mak saya malam ini berada di wad UMSC, PJ kerana esok pagi akan menjalani pemeriksaan andogram. Saya doakan yang baik-baik untuk mak. Semoga tiada yang teruk.

Eloklah mak menjalani pemeriksaan sewajarnya sebab bulan Oktober tahun ini mak akan ke Spain dan lagi dua tahun akan ke Mekah.

Ya Allah ringankan apa saja yang boleh membebankan mak.

Amin


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Resipi Lempeng Nani Rostam

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim

Saya pernah membeli kuih raya dengan Kak Nani Rostam ini. memang MANTAP kuih rayanya.
Berbaloi beli walaupun agak berharga sedikit. Benda sedap mestilah berharga sikitkan.

Saya juga suka cara Kak Nani masak, kaedahnya telah dipermudahkan dan cepat dan sedap!

Di sini ialah resipi lempeng.

Resepinya...
Humban semua bahan di bawah ini dalam blender dan kisar....

225gm tepung gandum

300ml susu segar


2 sudu makan gula


1 sudu teh baking powder


sedikit garam


1 sudu makan minyak jagung

Alhamdulillah.
Hidayah

Beli Barang Dapur Secara Online

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim


Okey, saya harap perkhidmatan redtick.com akan sampai ke kawasan Rawang kelak. Sebabnya saya amat amat suka membeli belah secara online. Tak perlu berpanas, memandu kereta dan membazirkan minyak.

Anda boleh periksa sama ada kawasan anda terdapat dalam senarai http://www.redtick.com.my/
Jika ada, bolehlah membeli belah barangan dapur. Best!

Alhamdulillah.
Hidayah

Puding Karamel Nani Rostam

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim

Lagi dua minggu kenduri akan diadakan jadi saya bercadang ingin buat puding karamel. Ini resipi paling mudah saya jumpa. Terima kasih Kak Nani (http://nanirostam.blogspot.com/2011/06/desas-desus.html)

RESEPI PUDING KARAMEL

Langkah 1...

Sediakan periuk pengukus di atas api dapur.

Langkah 2

2 sudu makan gula
Sebji loyang.
Cara-cara...masukkan gula di dalam loyang dan letak loyang di atas api dapur dalam masa lebih kurang 2 minit. Kacau gula sehingga berwarna kuning pekat keemasan. Angkat dan ketepikan.

Langkah 3

7 biji telur grade A.
1 tin susu pekat.
1 tin air (guna tin susu tadi)
1 sudu teh esen vanila (imported)
Cara-cara....dengan menggunakan sudu garpu, pukul telur menggunakan tangan sehingga sebati. Masukkan susu dan air....kacau lagi dan masukkan esen vanila. (Masa mengacau dianggarkan selama 5 minit).
Selepas itu tuang bancuhan telur tadi ke dalam loyang yang ada gula hangus tadi dan kukus.
Dalam masa 20 minit...angkat dan telangkupkan di atas pinggan besar. Potong dan sejukkan sebelum di makan.

Selamat membuatnya...semuga jadi dan sedap dimakan.

Alhamdulillah.
Hidayah

Kasih ibu

A mark for every breath you took, every blink, every sleepy yawn. One for every time you sucked your thumb, waved hello, closed your eyes and slept in the most perfect darkness. One for every time you had the hiccups. One for every dream you dreamed within me. It isn't very pretty anymore. Some may even think it ugly. That's OK. It was your home. It's where I first grew to love you, where I lay my hand as I dreamed about who you were and who you would be. It held you until my arms could, and for that, I will always find something beautiful in it."

Repinned to Words and Inspirations 13 days ago from Quotes by Jan Moon

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Just A Reminder

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim


Read more here http://ibuhannah.blogspot.com/2010/05/just-reminder-to-all-of-us.html


Alhamdulillah.
Hidayah